My wound update - 6/2/11

It has been a day to a month, yet my wound has not healed. So sad. Naturally I cannot smile as much as I should, who can if one were in my situation.

The taking of stitches was not painful, but my second time stitches was painful. It split and leak when i walked too much. The doctor re stitched back for the 2nd round. I was then wounded like a soldier been injured seriously.

My wound update

So this is my wound after the second time stitches. It is much wider and more scar now. Hope that it will dry and heal fast.

20/1/11 - online diary

My wound on my thigh has not yet healed. On the 14/1/11 i had my stitches untie. Very unfortunately on the 8/1/11 my wound leak and splits. It bleeds like a soldier's injury in the war time. So the following day I had my stitches cleaned, injection and sewn back. Naturally this dampen my spirit to write anymore, until and unless my wound is heal again.

On the happier side is that I have a new washing machine. This is my second washing machine in my life. I choose the same front loading, and the same brand as it was the first machine. After many comparisons I still opt for front loading. I like front loading more because it is less harsh to our laundry extending the life of our clothes and also uses less water compared to top load.

9/1/11 - update on my thigh

Day 3 - 9/1/11

The bruise is spreading and has lessen. The center is the stitch.

7/1/11 - online diary

It is a relieve to have one big fatty tissue lump (about 1" big) removed from my thigh today. The surgeon is very clever. The was no pain during the surgery and even after 12 hours after the surgery. Somehow when I ask the doctor for the cause of the tissue he can't explain. So this is my day today feeling very glad that it was over at the same time felt very sad by the sight of the hospital.

I saw many weak old people there laying on the beds. This makes me think that what is the uses or purposes of being strict if they were when they were once upon time young. Life span is finite and fixed. Life is useless once one can no longer get up walk, run and dance.

In 1996 i have a smaller lump removed from my arm by the same doctor. 15 years ago times flies.

Why many men like to have affair with married woman?

It is well known fact that nowadays many men both bachelors and married men enjoy having affair with married woman compared to spinsters. Throughout my working lives and personal lives I have come across a thousands of such pairs. The reasons are very plain obvious. For those who thought that we do not know let me disclose to you. They are :

1. Relatively married women appeared to be more cheerful and lively compared to spinsters. Who will not be cheerful when one can boast about having a family i.e. husband, children , etc.

2. If the man were to have affair with a married woman, it requires less commitment. Less time and attention are also needed because the woman too will have to spend some time with her legal husband.

3. After the "project" the man can very easily wipe his buttock and wear pants and go off happily. Less string attached and less stressful.

4. Like the Chinese saying goes, "Stealing food taste more delicous". Likewise affair with married woman enhance the thrill and excitement more compared to having affair with spinster.

5. An affair with married woman also serve as less chances of contracting HIV compared to with prostitutes.

6. In case if the woman conceive the baby, it can very easily become the legal husband' child. One don't have to waste a single cent to pay for maternity bills or the chore of rearing the child up.

7. By having an affair with married woman, it need to be in the dark thus has more chances and also easier to flirt around with some other woman. Easier for man to have more partners simultaneously.

8. It is also a boost to the man's ego when he can successfully sleep with other man's wife.

9. The chances of married woman ability to win the man's heart is higher because they have already successfully hooked one man to married them.

10. In this modern age now, adulterous is already a norm, especially where they can easily meet and understands each other through work place or even some through being business partners initially.

11. The affair will be more attractive if the legal husband of the woman is rich high flyer. The man can happily announce Mr so and so's wife is my very "close friend, our relationship is sheer platonic, bla bla, bla".

12. Should the man happen to be also married, this will heighten the relationship further because both have common background- same marital status. Thereby more to exchange or talk about.

Please leave a comments if I have missed out any other reasons for these affairs.

Straits Quay, Penang

Another new beautiful place in Penang. I snap them with my handphone camera, that is why there are not that sharp. I will be visiting this place again after the harbour is completed. The light house is really very attractive. There is also a long windy path which is very suitable for evening walks and couples walks and dens.