Friday, January 29, 2010

To believe or not to believe

I called up my contractor regarding my pending to be repaired water tank. He told me actually he had assigned his supervisor to repair for me, however his supervisor fell down. He is injured. Although I have doubts, I replied among a few things like "Then what about some other worker, or repair for me after he has healed, after CNY". Besides i also asked if he has broken any limbs, etc. politely.

I have his supervisor's telephone number. If i want to verify i can, but i hold back for a few reasons. No need to be so much a rush as it is already near festive season now. I can't called another contractor that easy now.

In my mind i m really wondering if he is making up excuses or not. Just like people normally said he is too busy to see any movies if he or she does not his/her dates.

Time will tell.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Why it should not be difficult to be positive?

With a switch of thought anyone can be positive provided he or she can follows these few tips;

1. Forget all your friends and relatives that have hurt you one way or another. So what if they are either legally binding to you or have any blood relation with you. What so great.

2. Forget of the habit of wanting to accumulate more money.

3. Forget the habit of competing with one another for more wealth eg, new car, more property etc.

4. Disregard all insults and insinuating by all people; bosses, relatives, acquaintances and friends. Because they have been degraded themselves.

5. Forget the idea of looking for someone who is considerate, understanding, generous, big heart
caring, pure, etc because those that have such virtue together had died or not yet born.

6. Never take other people's sorrow/problem to be yours. Never.

7. Never be dependent on other people's attention, love, material being for our own happiness.
Too volatile and fluctuate. Even parents also can passed away.

8. We should not be controlled by our senses of organs; eyes, tongue, ears.

It may sound harsh. However if you really contemplate you will sure agree with me.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Why it is never easy to be positive

There are many people who are always very positive and ignore the reality of the circumstances, situations and fact.

As for me who is realistic and truthful find it not easy to be positive based on the following reasons:

1. In all my working life I always work in companies where no bonus is the norm.

2. In all my working life I have never had any promotion before. Increment also very marginal compared to my other colleagues. Mind you, the scope of my job are not less than them.

3. In all my working life I have very strong evidence that increment are based on 80% family background and 20% public relations or acting skill I would say.

4. I have never won any number or any competition before all my life.

5. I have never been anybody's favourite before eg child, student or even employee.

6. I have never visited any cities or countries before due to financial reasons.

7. I have never married before as I have said I have never been anybody's idol or favourite girlfriend before.

8. I have never been rich.

9. I have never sit in an aeroplane before.

10. I have never seen snow before.

Well the list goes on .........

Do you think anyone can be positive if he/she were in my situation?

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Top 10 reasons to smile

1. Smiling makes you attractive
We are drawn to people who smile

2. Smiling changes your mood

3. Smiling is contagious

4. Smiling relieves stress

5. Smiling boosts the immune system

6. Smiling lowers your blood pressure

7. Smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers and serotonin

8. Smiling makes one looks younger

9. Smiling makes one seems successful
Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted and more likely to be approached.

10. Smiling helps one to stay positive

Excerpt from a magazine from India.

Well, before that I always thought smiling is the manifestation/ by product that one is happy or contend unless those cunning smile. Now it is the reverse; one has to smile to feel better; upside down theory.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Steps to download songs from pc to handphone

I just learnt to download songs from pc to hand phone today. ( I am very late and much left behind.) There are few methods namely : by bluetooth device, card reader or just USB cable.

The hand phone that I am using is the second handphone for me since year 2002. You can conclude that I am not a heavy user. Mainly because my contacts and networking are almost negligible. Most people I know of are too either absorbed with their families or their careers. Therefore left nothing to communicate.

The most important steps that took me a few days to get it is that once you have selected the songs, you have to save in the hard disk and not open in with any programs.

Once you have the USB cable to connect your handphone to the pc, click open removable disk till you can see the folder songs. Copy and paste the selected songs from your hard to the songs folder of your handphone. There it is, I have downloaded some sentimental old songs.